This is how I make it. I can barely type because this has been such a horrible day. Here goes. Do not expect measurements. Kim, I did this today for you.
shredded cabbage and carrots
big glop of Miracle Whip, about the size of two extra-large eggs
some yellow mustard about two tsps or what pleases you, more or less
sugar, maybe two tsps? more or less, Tommy likes this amount and I like less
1/4 or less of salt
two dashes of pepper from McCormick can
vinegar, 1 tsp of whatever type you like
I never make a dressing, just drop it all on top of cabbage/carrots, starting with mayo and ending with vinegar.
This is delicious when it is just made, so it does not have to sit to blend flavors like I see in some recipes.
I love red cabbage, but the slaw turns pink after it sits overnight. It appears to be spoiled to me. So, I try to buy the mix without red cabbage. Dole has lots of carrots, so I prefer that.
The only reason I quit grating cabbage was because I injured my hand in my 40s and bought the mix after that.
Another thing I do that does not affect taste. I put salt in first and then pepper so I know that if I see pepper, I have also salted. And, the vinegar is the last thing I put in so it is poured over the salt, pepper, and sugar. I think it blends better or maybe I am deluded.
One more thing--dice a nice juicy tomato or more and put tomato and juice into the slaw and stir. I was grossed out when I saw slaw I had to eat with tomato in it, but it was delicious. I rarely do this, but it is good. I love to entertain and cook. However, it is hard on anyone. I really enjoy having prepared dishes.
Two other things I serve. I hate both--sliced cantaloupe, not chunked, and just cantaloupe and a drained can of peas, cubes of cheese, grape tomatoes or diced, and MW or mayo. I don't/won't eat either cantaloupe or peas, but these are easy and colorful dishes for a table of things that call for a hot stove. I can make slaw, peas/cheese, and slice a cantaloupe in an hour. Or, I can make all three over the course of the day. The cheese might look unappetizing once it sits in mayo. But, oh well! Eat it! It's good for you!
If you use my recipe, let me know if you like it.
Tommy just arrived in a Lyft. I will explain tomorrow.
So sad that the submersible is lost along with five lives.