First of all, I am tired of blogging. I suppose I am sick of typing every day! There is nothing else I am missing or not doing. I just dread the idea of doing this. I will probably not stop.
Thursday, we had known for a week that bad weather was on the way. But, it often just blows a lot and the conditions, rain and wind, keep us off the road for anything. Thursday was different. Our location was at the edge of the polygon for tornado path. We also knew that 4 pm should be the start of our problems with the storm moving through quickly.
About 6:15 pm the wind was terrific. The lights blinked once, then again and again. I knew it was the end, so I started my lift chair to get up. Once the footrest went down, I only used it for a second or two more and struggled to get up with it slanted but not lifting me too much. Tommy was in the kitchen with his lift completely up.
Since it was dark, I rushed across the room to get his led lantern. I turned it on and rushed as well as I could to the bedroom to get my lantern. I did yell for him to stand still while I brought the light. It was pitch dark where he was standing.
So, we both had lanterns. That fact was the highlight of the next few hours. We looked through the door light and just saw rain and trees thrown about. He left the door open and I saw the neighbor across the street and one down out with a light. Actually, I only saw a light. Tommy looked out by opening the storm door, too. He said a tree was down on this neighbor's mother's vehicle. So, we knew how we lost power.
Then, I started fretting about the lack of cooking facilities. Tommy has gas, but an electric stove. I started, well, continued my lobbying for a gas grill. Finally, he said, "I thought you said you could open a can of green beans and eat them cold?" Well, I was not in the mood...lol. Finally, I ate ciabatta bread with a bit of butter, then half a hot Diet Coke Caffeine Free, then a can of tuna. Tommy had peanut butter sandwich. We lived.
We listened to Barry Manilow on my boombox cd player. Then, we listened to the radio, something on NPR. I read with my booklight--some sort of book about words.
Both our chairs were stuck very slanted, Tommy's more than mine. We were both hurting. At midnight this became a problem and we were hurting by then. Tommy tried to put his feet on his walker. That hurt, then he tried putting a plastic bag full of stored bags on the walker. That still hurt. I offered to put the ottoman in front of him. He rejected that idea.
He tried sitting in the one chair I bought that does not lift. He did not like that. He even said he thought I would not let him sit in it. Oh, so not true! Finally, I offered to let him use my chair that was not so slanted. His feet were still hanging. Finally, I fixed the ottoman so he could use that. It worked. He said he slept about two hours all night and fitfully for most of the night.
I had suggested he try to sleep in the bed with me. He cannot get on and off the bed and the two of us going to the bathroom all night would have been a nightmare.
After we settled ourselves with the lanterns, saw the downed tree, and decided this was an all nighter, I to out more light. We have a set of three candles that use batteries. I took the tallest of the three and put it on the back of the commode. We did use the lantern to get to the bathroom, but this was just a bit of security. It seemed less treacherous to have some sort of light to illuminate the way.
I have the round touch lights and plenty of batteries. I had batteries in one and put batteries in another and gave one to Tommy. We both had these and the lanterns right by our elbows. Tommy really liked these. He told me he used his to go to the bathroom. I could not understand. He said he held it over the commode so he could hit the commode. ??? He said he could not hold the lantern to see. Well, I am glad he did not drop it in! They are cheap, but still.
When we left the house, we discovered that his metal shed was on its side. It was rotten and needed to be hauled off years ago, but he cannot move it, even in pieces. The only thing that kept it from completely blowing away was that there is a light wired in from the wall. So, an electrical wired kept it in the yard. The garbage had blown over and some garbage blew out. Many of my plants or pots of dirt had scooted across the porch with help from the wind. The two pots at the turn on the ramp had been blown onto the ramp so we could not walk. There is still trash from other people's yards in our yard.
The temperature was about 70F before the storm. As the night wore on the temperature dropped to the 30s. We were so cold in the morning and left to get something hot for breakfast. Of course, he needed coffee. Hardee's lost power, so we had to find something else. I hate McD and BK sausage. I don't eat any eggs except those I cook.
Sonic hamburger was $4.99, so I refused to eat. Coffee was expensive, too. We went to Krystal and ate two burgers and he had cheap coffee.
I decided the car was too warm to go home and announced my intentions of not going into the house until the electricity was on! I had other things I needed to do. In the meantime, we swung back by the house often.
As we drove into the neighborhood, our friend, L, was out bundled up with the hood up on her car. I had a thing to jump off the car that did not work the first time. I wanted to return it months ago, but Tommy insisted we keep it for an emergency. We only knew it did not work! So, we stopped and told her we would get ours from my car.
Ours did not work. She had a broken jumper and finally got that one to work. We were all freezing and none of us had a warm coat, just light jackets. But this is the South!
Auto Zone would not cooperate and come to the car and get the charger. It is too heavy for me to carry. So, corporate can take care of it for me. YES, they normally are very accommodating. But, this is Hueytown.
We stopped by the place we bought the chairs to ask about the power packs. The woman who was helping up was not in. Today, Saturday, we will go talk with her. She was telling us about the best thing to get. Hopefully, we can order that from Amazon today. We never want to be in the position we were in today.
I went into Publix to get our lunch--two chicken breasts and pasta salad to share. It was what I wanted. We had hot coke and pepsi from home. We ate slowly and enjoyed the piping hot chicken. At some point during the day, I had a banana. I forgot to get applesauce for the car. Oh, I did get Wheat Things Lightly Salted for a snack and for home.
On February 22, 5G kicks in and neither of my phones will work. My intentions were to get one on Friday, so no electricity was a good excuse. AT&T in Hueytown has never been helpful. I promptly went to Verizon and got the new phone and for the first time since 1953, I no longer use Bell South/AT&T.
Finally, around 5 pm, we came home. I saw Tommy at the thermostat once when we came in for a bathroom break. When we came in it was sooo warm. He had set the thermostat on 72F. He turned it back and we settled in to sit in chairs that were now working.
I asked Tommy what we would have done if the electricity was off another night. He said we would go to a motel. When I came in the morning, he was still asleep in my chair, so I sat in the non-lift chair. He had on a hoodie with the hood up and sleeping. When he went to "bed," he said a sheet was all he needed. Later, after we had heat, he said every time he got up to go to bathroom, he got another blanket or his jacket with hood. In the bed I was toasty warm and only was chilly when I went to the bathroom. With carpet my feet were not chilly, and in the bathroom, I deliberately stepped on the rugs! I think the seating was the only thing along with how cold it was sitting in the chair with his feet and legs exposed underneath the blanket was the only reason he would have gone to a motel.
Every person on this street and many from the neighborhood were gone. People who had two cars, left in two cars! I know some have relatives. The new people moved in across from us on Thursday. That was a cruel welcome to their new home.
Every time I mention something new to Tommy, he throws a holy fit and is mean to me. But, as time goes on, he softens to the idea. That is how we have a freezer, dishwasher, and the lift chairs, among other lesser items.
So, once again, I mentioned a whole house generator. He says nothing. That is a good sign. I have even been surreptitiously shopping online and talking to two friends.
When we stopped to help our friend with her battery, she came to the car saying, "Seven Hells! That is how mad I am." AT&T had disabled her phone, also, to try to force her to switch to 5G. I had been ranting about this to her, also. When I went to AT&T, she came in. When I went to Verizon, she was in there changing her service!
The thing that was the most worrisome for me was losing what I had in the refrigerator and freezer. We got home two hours after the electricity came back on. The first thing I did was go to freezer and refrigerator. Everything in both was frozen solid. Only bread had ice crystals. So, I am not sure if the frozen items thawed all the way or just got a little soft on the outside, or what happened. I do know that I will throw out the chicken breast that was thawed completely and ready for the oven.
We are drinking the milk until it tastes funny. I will use some of it when it goes bad for chocolate milk and make some buttermilk. But, I doubt I can save five half-gallons! The cheese stays. Not sure about the brie. I cannot find anything that looks like it got so warm in the freezer that it sagged and refroze, like the blueberries. I did throw out canned chicken that needed to go anyway. Tommy had been eating it on salads.
We can survive a minor outage. We can live with cold food. But, we are old and need some warmth. I think I see a whole house generator in our future, one with dual fuel usage. My friend told me where he got his for less than $800. When I called him on his home phone for generator details, he answered in Buffalo, NY. He had gone to his father's funeral. He was 104-years-old!
Okay, we have to go see what kind of contraption that works these chairs without power to the house. Did you have consequences from the storm?
An easy, cheap way to tell if your freezer has thawed and re froze is partially fill a small disposable cup, like a bathroom type Dixie cup, with water. Freeze the cup with the water. When frozen, place a penny on top of the frozen water. If/when the water thaws, the penny will sink below the top. That way you know if there was any question of thaw/refreeze, the penny will be the indicator.
ReplyDeleteDawn,
DeleteWell, we had not done anything to indicate a melt!
Dawn, that is a clever idea and I am implementing it today!
DeleteTut! Blogging is a hobby, or a passion.
ReplyDeleteIt is one thing to put up with a tedious marriage but a tedious hobby makes no sense. Blog when you will/when you want.
URspo,
DeleteTruth be told it is just the starting. Once I start writing, I am all in. I want to blog every day. I was just tired.
I find blogging/writing is best done when tired. It helps. It helps me anyway.
DeletePS We did not have a terrible storm in N.E. like you did but we did have the craziest snow squall! It was almost a white-out; one second the sky was gray, the next it was snowing/blowing so furiously we could barely see the house across the street! It lasted for about 20 min. and dumped 1.5 inches on us. I've never seen anything quite like it.
DeleteMother Nature is letting us know how displeased she is with all this weird weather!
Urspo,
DeleteBlogging when tired is not my best.
Sue,
DeleteI read about all the blowing snow.
Hot coke? Is that a Southern thing, like cold coke and chocolate ice cream? I've had warm coke, but never hot.
ReplyDeleteI would lobby for a gas STOVE before a gas grill. You don't want to have to stand outside in the cold just to heat food. A used or reconditioned gas stove shouldn't be more than a gas grill. You won't be able to use a gas oven in an outage, but the cooktop will be usable as long as the stove doesn't have an interlock (which prevents gas from flowing if there is no electricity). Older gas stove models don't have this "feature".
Are you on city water? You didn't mention water problems, so I'm guessing yes?
You know, I never thought of the power going out with lift chairs stuck in a bad position. You'd at least think they'd program the chairs to slide back into the down position if the power went out. Guess those battery packs are a necessity and not a luxury!
Your having lots of portable lights and batteries was wise thinking! I hope Tommy gave you credit for it.
You can freeze the milk so it doesn't expire before you drink it all. Just be sure to thaw thoroughly so there's no ice left.
Your idea for a generator is a good one--I will never be without one again. Just know that you will have to have an electrician add a panel to your electrical service to accommodate the generator. And it's not cheap!
Also, if you do not get a standby generator, you will have to wheel your dual fuel gen out of your garage or shed to use; so make sure both you and Tommy can wheel it about. Also, you will manually have to switch over to generator power.
What havoc you've been through! I'd say you were pretty successful except for being hampered by a lack of gas stove for cooking and generator for heating. Hopefully Tommy was scared/inconvenienced enough by the storm to let you address those problems!
Sue,
DeleteBy "hot" coke, I meant room temperature, not cold. We cannot move anything. I meant permanently placed and hooked up the house. We won't be getting a gas stove! With a generator, we could use anything electric. It would be a whole house generator. Or maybe only for refrigerator and freezer and a few other things.
My generator was sitting outside the window and I never moved it. I just had to plug in the extension cords and have someone get them up ten feet to a window so I could pull them in and plug it to refrigerator and freezer. I even had an extension cord to a lamp with four bulbs.
When I came here, he had no flashlight. Well, he finally found one but had no batteries. He yelled at me for buying flashlights and lanterns and the little push lights. But, he was plenty happy to have them Thursday night!!!
His water heater is gas and it does not need electricity. We do need those power packs and he is all for getting those right now. I will order them soon.
We have frequent power outages here in the PNW. In this house, we have a standby generator, but in our old house, which we lived in for 15(+) years, we did not. Your lift chair story is very similar to a power outage story I had in the old house. DH was almost fully reclined in his lift chair when the power went out. He had to roll off of it to get up, with my kids and me by the side, rendered useless with laughter. A few hours later the woman who suggested we get that chair, (she's an OT) and HER son came by. When I showed them the chair, and we regaled them with the story, her son, without missing a beat said, "You need a hydraulic jack" and then mimicked
ReplyDeleteusing one, complete with sound effects. That made *ALL* of us, DH included, collapse again with laughter. It didn't dawn on my friend or I, when we purchased that chair, to think about battery back up.
Power outages are one reason I insist on having a dual fuel range. You can cook with a gas cook top in a power outage if you are brave enough to put a lighter by the pilot on top, which my sons most certainly are. Our old house also had a woodstove, which gets hot enough on top to heat up soup, water for tea, and even make a grilled cheese. But, our power outages tend to happen in fall and spring, NOT times I feel like heating up the house with the wood stove. We've only had one outage in winter weather, about 15 years ago, lasting 3 days,--temperatures dipped below freezing. DH sat in the family room with a kid in his lap all night and fed that wood stove! .
The worst thing in our old place about power outages was that, since we are on private wells and septic systems with pumps, we have no water. (Pump uses electricity.) That also means you can't flush the toilet. You can force a flush by pouring water in the bowl, but it won't get pumped from the septic tank to the drain field. As such, we had a power outage rule of: One toilet, one flush/day. My kids always joked about the "Celebratory Flushing of the Toilets" upon restoration of power.
Meg,
DeleteI thought about a wood stove! But, that won't be happening here. Too bad. We don't have to worry about hot water or flushing, thankfully. But, I can imagine it was awful, the commode situation. I am glad you had a woodstove, at least, and someone to feed it!
I thought about how to get out of this chair when we first bought it if the power went out. Tommy would be able to roll out of his over the side, maybe. It would hurt him, but he could do it. I have a table on each side of mine, so impossible. But, if he could get out, he could manage to pull the heavy table away for me to roll out.
I would have matches to put to the gas. I have matches and tea lights. I also have battery powered tea lights. I got those little $1 flashlights, too. Plus, the led lanterns. I keep an abundance of batteries. I already had both boom boxes loaded with batteries! We had radio and cds. I even used my book light to read and used it once just to look for something as it was better than the heavy lanterns.
Neither of our conditions is good with the cold, so it was hard to move! I wonder if they make battery powered electric blankets...lol. My wool blanket made me realize we need more of the military blankets.
Not recently but a few years ago, during an ice storm, we lost power for four days! Luckily, we had gas logs installed in our family room just a month before that. Biggest problem is that we cook with electric. The worst part was that we live on a cul-de-sac and a utility pole had fallen across the street and we were trapped in our driveway! No way to get coffee without walking to the entrance of our plan, on ice. my son brought us coffee and I backed my car out of the garage, started the engine and sat on the heated leather seats and played on my phone. I even took naps in my car! One of my neighbors has a uninteruptible power source, we could hear it running. Sad part was that the neighbor was in Florida! Here I go, rambling again. What I wanted to tell you was that I invested in rechargable light bulbs. You just install them in your lamps like a regular bulb and when the power goes down, they work like a regular bulb. That might work for you!
ReplyDeleteJan,
DeleteNo bother about rambling. It is a good story. Electric seats would have been wonderful. And, to hear a heat source next door would have been agony. I wanted those light bulbs, but could only find them online but from the company. That was when they first came out and no one knew if they really worked. Since then, maybe they are in stores or on Amazon. I am going to look for them anyway. And, a generator is in my eyesight. Tommy is the coffee drinker. I don't like hot drinks at all. Thanks for the story.
Oh my that must have been SO stressful. I'm so glad you're both ok!
ReplyDeleteI have a whole house generator - but it sure was much pricier than $800. That price doesn't seem quite right to me. They are wonderful to have. We got it because of my late husband's health issues.
ReplyDeleteI can open a can of about anything and eat it - not picky. The freezer should have been fine if it wasn't opened a lot - so should the frig.
Sounds like a frustrating time.
Cheryl,
DeleteI had the cans of roast beef and cans of green beans that are a feast to me. I was very stressed. Tommy has no substitute for a cup of hot coffee. I imagine he will let me get a grill now. I want to buy it for $99, small and just what I need. He has never, ever used a grill. I have.
I trust C about the price. He gets the best deal on things and thoroughly researches things. My friend J got a generac. He does not have C's skills or resources. If C had not gone to Buffalo for his father's funeral, I would have the whole story.
It sounds as if you handled a difficult situation very well. We rarely have power outages here so I don't have any back up plan at all. The way climate change is driving more disastrous weather, I probably should have one.
ReplyDeletekylie,
DeleteAt least have a few light sources. Other things like food and water are important. He is a biggie, but if you have a place to go, like with children or neighbors, that is good. Nothing can be done if you don't have a light source.
Heat is a biggie. Not he!
DeleteWe have priced a whole house generator and it was substantially more than 800. That is why I have a small one that will keep the freezer and fridge running but not much more.
ReplyDeleteA less expensive alternative to a gas grill is a butane burner similar to this https://www.webstaurantstore.com/choice-1-burner-high-performance-butane-countertop-range-portable-stove-with-brass-burner-8-000-btu/472BR1800.html
They use butane in a canister that looks kind of like an old aerosol hair spray can.
I have one and have used it inside with just a door cracked for ventilation.
Anne,
DeleteThat is what I have found about prices. But, when C gets back from his father's funeral in Buffalo, I will find out more. My phone died just after he said that, so I don't know. I hated to call him back at this time.
I have seen those but never for inside. I wonder how it will affect my asthma. I have seen them and the canister. I may get that until I can do better.
So, you run an extension cord from outside to run things? That is what I did at my house.
You cannot quit, I would want to know what you were doing. You need to keep blogging just for me. Ha! See if you can find some Mormon missionaries walking around and stop them and get them to do a service project for you. They can get that shed taken care of and they will!
ReplyDeleteKim,
DeleteI won't quit, just so I can keep you in the loop. I never see any missionaries here. That would work for that shed. I would even pay them and feed them!